D8 PROFILE: Speed D8 H8R S1, E118
https://anchor.fm/dickmatized-sex-mems/episodes/Speed-D8-H8R-ei7tdd
By DESIRaE M. wRIGHT
Age: 46
Body Height: 5’8
Body Type: Average
Job: Mechanic
Race/Ethnicity: White/American
Total # of D8s: 1 Speed D8
SEXual Relations? NO
DICKmatization Rating [1 DICK (low) – 5 DICKs (Max): 0 DICKs
Theme Song(s): No Scrubs by TLC, Take It Easy by the Eagles, Rude by MAGIC! Safe & Sound by the Capital Cities
ABOUT HIM:
There is a point in time when you get sick of all this online D8ing BS. It takes forever to talk to people 1-1, organize a D8s etc. only to actually meet and decide you don’t have any chemistry. So, I decide Speed D8ing is the way to go!! You get like 10-15 mini-D8s in 1 night! I decide this is an efficient use of my time.
At this particular speed D8, I meet someone (very briefly) and we both indicated on a tick sheet that we are both mutually interested in each other. The organizers then provide contact info to both speed D8rs. Then you take it from there yourself.
He calls me and we speak on the phone. I enjoyed talking to him, we decide to organize a first D8. I tell him I’m just about to go into a movie with one of my gal pals. During the space of this movie he blows up my celly with texts, which I begin to read and respond to upon leaving the movie.
One of his texts says, “Hey I have this great idea for our 3rd D8!!!!”
“Ok lol”, I say, “don’t you think we should go on our 1st D8 first??” He says “you should definitely ask me what I am thinking for the 3rd D8”. Ok. I bite.
He says, “I want to take you to a park and cum on your tits for our 3rd D8.”
I’m dumbstruck into silence. I usually always have something to say, but I guess I was surprised because I had met this guy face to face and also spoken to him on the phone. I definitely have had guys that I’ve never met SEXt me saying nasty things they would like to do.
He continues to text and ask why I’m not responding, what I don’t like the idea etc. etc.?? Finally, a couple days later I say,” I am a lady, I don’t think you should talk to any ladies that way. We are not a match.”
That does end the texts from him.
But after telling this story all of my friends they said I shoulda asked some more “probing” questions about the 3rd D8 like:
- Which Park?
- What time? (It was summer in AZ and it can get past 100 degrees) Should I pack sunscreen?
- What should I wear, something that allows me to take my top off? Or bring a trash bag poncho/plastic bib to wear for easy clean-up and disposal?
- Will you be doing anything for me to get me in the mood?
- What is the plan if people and or the police see us?
- Are you going to buy me dinner first?
They said I should have told him to have his pants down and be “ready” and sent the cops to the park instead. All clever come backs lol………. instead I said my lady-like statement but will definitely keep all these come backs in mind the next time I am propositioned in this manner.
DIsCKussion Questions:
- What are your thoughts on public SEX? Ever done it? Do you want to?
- Should you plan the 3rd D8 and outline your SEXual preference for the D8 before the 1st D8 even happened? Has this ever happened to you?
- At what point in the relationship is it ok talk about your SEXual fantasies? What’s your fantasy?
- What do you think about speed D8s in general? Have you ever been to a Speed D8?
